chomize
verb
To provide friendly, constructive criticism when one’s instinct is to be confrontational and aggressive.
As the bag ripped open and Sofi’s groceries spilled out onto the parking lot, she resisted the urge to yell at the bagger who had been carrying it to her car. “You know,” she chomized, “you’ll have better luck with the heavy bags if you hold them from the bottom. That way the bag is less strained by the weight.”