Urman Dictionary

vivimend

verb

To attempt to re-establish an ongoing connection with someone that had previously been cut off completely.

May follow a period of being lurchazar. Can easily lead to frattle.

Browsing through the New Releases albums, Claudia was only dimly aware of the music coming from the store’s PA. As the track changed, she dispassionately noted they were playing what had once been her and Eyal’s song, and thought she should text him to ask what he thought of the latest from Aphex Twin. A moment later, she did a mental double-take - she hadn’t spoken with Eyal since their messy breakup two years earlier, and she was accustomed to thoughts of him being accompanied by dull pain and smoldering rage, not idle curiosity. But she wasn’t angry anymore, and it didn’t hurt anymore. Maybe it was time to vivimend with him.